tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3434361004754663779.post1513443413880516533..comments2023-10-24T07:53:53.130-07:00Comments on Dating Is Weird: Familiar UnderwearS.G.Loughlinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05848043332676380294noreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3434361004754663779.post-69276740339321123122013-04-29T18:32:54.646-07:002013-04-29T18:32:54.646-07:00If the your new girl friend's bra makes you th...If the your new girl friend's bra makes you think of your ex girl friend then definitely tell your new girl friend that here bra is just like one your ex had. I know I wouldn't want to be wearing a pair of underwear that reminded the girl I was dating about her ex, good bad or indifferent!soulFuse.comhttp://www.soulfuse.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3434361004754663779.post-84913150857819697432013-01-02T08:36:12.691-08:002013-01-02T08:36:12.691-08:00I think you that you can talk about the bra but in...I think you that you can talk about the bra but in a funny way so the girl will find it more fun to talk about it and you will relief to say your opinion at the end.benhttp://thebestdatingguides.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3434361004754663779.post-27219164489598282292012-12-28T06:40:24.055-08:002012-12-28T06:40:24.055-08:00there's no need to tell your girlfriend about ...there's no need to tell your girlfriend about it.. but why don't you get really passionate and tear the bra yourself while having some ride!!! ;) it'll turn on your girl n will also let you get rid of the bra<br />Terry@ Online Dating Emailshttp://www.yourthoughtsintowords.com/online-dating-emails/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3434361004754663779.post-79710601380987173112012-11-21T07:18:50.913-08:002012-11-21T07:18:50.913-08:00Very interesting post and comments. i am glad i st...Very interesting post and comments. i am glad i stumbled upon your post.Although my opinion may differ from most, I believe that it would be unhealthy for the relationship if the issue about the lingerie is kept. Discuss with your girlfriend anything that's bothering you. Focus on the source(bra) but don't forget to assure her that it has nothing to do with her.Inspirationalread.comhttp://inspirationalread.com/relationship-and-datingnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3434361004754663779.post-49579727698032937952012-10-22T17:02:24.256-07:002012-10-22T17:02:24.256-07:00As a woman, I have to say do NOT tell her that is ...As a woman, I have to say do NOT tell her that is why you lasted so long in bed... just tell her you masturbated or something. But next time she wears the bra, make an offhand comment like "huh, those must be pretty popular, my ex had one just like it" and chances are she'll ditch the bra herself. Just do it after sex, not before or during, or when she's putting it on in the morning. Just whatever you do, again, do not mention that it makes you think of your ex and made you last longer. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3434361004754663779.post-2171607425109528572012-10-12T21:14:57.631-07:002012-10-12T21:14:57.631-07:00You have to realize that if your relationship with...You have to realize that if your relationship with your ex was so uneasy, chances that this is anything deep seeded are low. It's the memory that turned you on, which makes sense because it's erotic imagery. Say you had an arrant memory of this bra on you ex in a different setting, it would probably have aroused you no matter what you were doing. Since you were already in the act it just added excitement. Your girlfriend doesn't need to know because while logically it meant nothing other than you're a sexual being, she may feel emotionally uneasy about it.<br /> Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3434361004754663779.post-50093220879000165762012-09-01T00:55:34.262-07:002012-09-01T00:55:34.262-07:00interesting , Just don't or ever mentioned to...interesting , Just don't or ever mentioned to your current girlfriend now that she wares same bra like your X ware , she might get offended about it.Filipino datinghttp://www.filipinodatingmall.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3434361004754663779.post-15080908515291776332012-08-05T09:20:15.444-07:002012-08-05T09:20:15.444-07:00Don't ditch the bra. It's not yours. Bras ...Don't ditch the bra. It's not yours. Bras are expensive, and comfortable ones can be hard to find. If you ditch it without consent, then you have stolen a piece of your girlfriend's property. If you have an issue with it either ignore it or tell her you don't care for that style of bra so she can decide whether to wear other ones around you or to take off her own bra when she takes off her shirt or what. Or you can compliment her when she is wearing some other bra that looks quite different and tell her you really like how she looks in that color or style to encourage her to wear a different type when she's expecting you to see it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3434361004754663779.post-61054417349724140152012-07-20T12:02:28.540-07:002012-07-20T12:02:28.540-07:00Well, that is not a situation I would have ever th...Well, that is not a situation I would have ever thought about, but I can see why that would be confusing for you, especially with your current girlfriend's apparent hang up on your ex. I think I disagree with everyone else here though because I think you should just tell your girlfriend that that particular bra is hard for you to see her in because your ex had the same one. You don't have to say anything about the sex or anything, but you shouldn't have to swallow your feelings about how the bra makes you uncomfortable; that seems unfair to you. Just a thought.Katie Martinhttp://www.singleparentmeet.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3434361004754663779.post-34046633668073803362012-07-18T14:21:17.786-07:002012-07-18T14:21:17.786-07:00Don't tell girlfriend about the bra, that will...Don't tell girlfriend about the bra, that will do nothing but hurt her. I would say enjoy the reminiscing that the bra might provide.Divorceddatingandindianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04724682873471069939noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3434361004754663779.post-47134085010349109782012-07-12T21:56:52.038-07:002012-07-12T21:56:52.038-07:00Who are you?? Because you sound shockingly like my...Who are you?? Because you sound shockingly like my ex - right down the sports bra and the description of the relationship. Are you A? Because I'm B.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3434361004754663779.post-67396872321231845982012-07-11T14:02:41.760-07:002012-07-11T14:02:41.760-07:00There is no need to feel guilty about your current...There is no need to feel guilty about your current situation with your present girlfriend.If this familiar lingerie creates more passion with your present girlfriend let it be your secret.The fact that the present one still feel suspicious about the ex-girlfriend is the indication as to remain quiet about it, it would only make things uncomfortable between you and the present girlfriend.You love the present one for more than just the lingerie,she has different qualities from your ex-girlfriend that is special and endearing to you.personalised silver jewelleryhttp://messageonanecklace.com/articles/personalised_jewellery.htmlnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3434361004754663779.post-26509965962850563872012-07-11T09:59:02.385-07:002012-07-11T09:59:02.385-07:00Love is a special feeling that just comes once in ...Love is a special feeling that just comes once in anyone's life. Relationship stands with trust. But i guess in your situation you should not mention bra.Sunil Koiralahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11918026334955789122noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3434361004754663779.post-92017175703147504172012-07-06T12:42:33.706-07:002012-07-06T12:42:33.706-07:00My advice is not to say anything to your girlfrien...My advice is not to say anything to your girlfriend ...question to friendshttp://www.formvote.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3434361004754663779.post-71112061973014514572012-07-06T11:52:14.531-07:002012-07-06T11:52:14.531-07:00Don't ditch the bra, and DON'T tell your g...Don't ditch the bra, and DON'T tell your girlfriend about it either. She will wonder how many times you thought of your ex during sex (which is true) and that the sex was better because of it (which is also true) but she will think it is because you were more turned on thinking of your ex. No win here. <br /><br />I say embrace the bra! Every time she wears it, thank your ex for enabling you to have great sex with your girlfriend!Oliviahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01070509887589601668noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3434361004754663779.post-55735775636087098602012-07-06T11:51:48.541-07:002012-07-06T11:51:48.541-07:00Don't ditch the bra, and DON'T tell your g...Don't ditch the bra, and DON'T tell your girlfriend about it either. She will wonder how many times you thought of your ex during sex (which is true) and that the sex was better because of it (which is also true) but she will think it is because you were more turned on thinking of your ex. No win here. <br /><br />I say embrace the bra! Every time she wears it, thank your ex for enabling you to have great sex with your girlfriend!Oliviahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01070509887589601668noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3434361004754663779.post-11392536337876736142012-07-06T08:40:44.287-07:002012-07-06T08:40:44.287-07:00Interesting way of thinking. And yes, i must agree...Interesting way of thinking. And yes, i must agree that you should not mention bra situation.Brisbane Escorthttp://www.adult-classifieds.com.au/index.phpnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3434361004754663779.post-43233891276503885512012-07-06T08:05:41.181-07:002012-07-06T08:05:41.181-07:00As the commenter above mentioned, whatever you do ...As the commenter above mentioned, whatever you do don't tell your girlfriend about exactly why you lasted longer than usual....let her remain blissfully unaware.<br /><br />If it were me I'd wait and see whether this becomes a regular problem or not. It wouldn't be too hard to get rid of it if it's causing that much of a problem, but that's definitely a last resort!Alexhttp://datingfaq.co.uk/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3434361004754663779.post-33489487838758060232012-07-06T06:46:54.998-07:002012-07-06T06:46:54.998-07:00I don't know if I think you should ditch the b...I don't know if I think you should ditch the bra. I mean, it's currently making your lady happy, and what's the harm in that? Eventually, your new memories with the bra will overtake the old.<br /><br />There's one thing I feel very strongly about though: Do not - I repeat - do NOT - mention this bra situation to your current girlfriend. Especially the part about lasting longer because of it. If she already has hang-ups about the ex, this won't help. A-tall.Serial Monogamisthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06240343915323669214noreply@blogger.com